Friday, September 28, 2012

Mom's coaching soccer to a bunch of boys???

I have been so excited about paying off our house that I forgot to mention that I am coaching a boys middle school CYO soccer team. 

I just found out that we are in first place and I am so excited. The other coach is an amazing momma of five wonderful kids and happened to coach a girls college basketball team. She has taught me so much about coaching and raising the bar for the kids. We make a great team, me with my 7 month old foster baby in a stroller and her with her daughter in a pink sling strapped on tight. 

My oldest son holding his little sister after he just dumped her water bottle on her after her first game ever!!!

I laughed when I just read this.

I let you know how we continue to do...hopefully we will make it to the playoffs...I am getting very competitive!!!

Thy Will Be Done!!! +JMJ+

Friday, September 21, 2012

WE PAID OFF OUR HOUSE!!!


What can I possibly say besides, "My husband rocks!"
This is us at the bank and my hubby signing our final payment on the house!
At the beginning of the year  my husband informed me that he was almost done paying off our home mortgage!  I was in shock at the possibility and just hugged him and told him how proud I was of him! He informed me that it was "us" and all the years of scraping the bottom of the barrel (he says we didn't even have a barrel!) and making small sacrifices!

In the early years friends used to introduce us as the couple who had everything, except money! God provided everything for us, cars, clothes, shoes, furniture...we never bought anything but food...or as my kids say, "we lived off of hamburger helper, hotdogs, mac & cheese, and oodles of noodles!" Thanks to our generous friends we ate out at least once a week for a real meal and Friday night dinners with my in laws.

When we got married we bought a nice townhouse and moved after five years when I was pregnant with our fourth child. We owned a small Christian Bookstore where we made practically nothing and got paid about twice a year, after Christmas and First Communion season. We moved back to our hometown and bought a nice cape cod, lived there for six years and had three more children. After our seventh child was born we found our dream house across town which was a foreclosure in the best neighborhood!

We sadly closed the bookstore and my husband got a new job, we started to appreciate things like sick leave, insurance, and vacations. After about seven years he got an even better job but we continued to live simply. During this time we had our other five children. Things like homeschooling our kids saved us a ton of money, making our kids pay for their own phones, their own car insurance, and college is a biggy too! Not to mention things like my coffee loving husband only going to places like Starbucks five times in his entire life! We splurge now on things like paper towels, dryer sheets, ice cream, real butter, real tomato catchup, and a monthly date out!

My husband making his growling face in front of the bank with letter in hand!

My hubby would put all the extra funds (I of course didn't know that they existed) on our house. Simple things like using cloth diapers and not stopping for convenience food made a huge difference. The kids and I would always say as we drove past all the fast food places in town, "It is a good thing we aren't rich, cuz we would stop there right now, then we would be fat and unhealthy!"

We are pinching ourselves and can't believe we paid off our 30 year mortgage in 12 years 3 months! WE didn't know what to do...have a mortgage burning party? Only our older family and friends remember things like that! So we just went out to dinner with our wonderful accountant and his wife!

Who said it can't be done...one income family with 12 kids!
(One married, 3 in college, 2 in high school, 2 in middle school, 3 in elementary, and one in preschool)

Now our goal is to pay off our van and we will be completely dept free!!! Thanks be to God!!! We will continue to live the good life and put money away for our 25th wedding anniversary and retirement!Watch out Rome...


Us in front of our PAID OFF house with the check before we mailed it!

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

Monday, September 17, 2012

17 day diet: day 17

WEIGH IN:
148.8 ...same as yesterday...but at least I didn't gain!

Breakfast:
Greek yogurt with peaches

Lunch:
huge salad with grilled chicken

Dinner:
Flat flush soup
Drinks:
5 of my 8 waters
2 of my 4 green teas

Workout:
M/W/F:
Gym 5-5:50am
Do HIIT run-looks like this:
warm up on 4 for 2 min
go to 5.0 for one min
go to 5.5 for one min
go to 6. for one min
go to 6.5 for one min
go to 7.5 for one min
one minute break!
then back to 4 and do it again (3 times total)

Then I go to do weight training:
(do each 15 times for 3 rotations)
1. Chest Fly (on back with 15lb weight in each hand-bring up to each other)
2. Back Row (on each side with 15 lb weight, knuckle on bench, knee on bench, back straight, pull up weight like pulling a lawn mower cord up)
3. Shoulder Raise (10lb and then 5 lb weight in each hand, stand up strait, lift up arms at the same time
4. Bicep Curls (hold a 15 lb weight in each hand one at a time curl up arm-15 sets, so 30 times)


I then ran 2 miles with my daughter at lunch.

This is it for now...I am not gonna post daily food or exercise...I am gonna take a break for a couple of days and go back to phase 2. 

Thy will be done!!! +JMJ+

Sunday, September 16, 2012

17 day diet-Day 16:

Day 16 weigh in...148.8 lbs
Day 1 weigh in...158.2 lbs
almost 10 lbs exactly


Today I just wasn't that hungry...
Breakfast: chobani peach yogurt at a soccer game
Late Lunch: salad with chicken
snack: celery
dinner: a little of Fat flush soup which I changed around a bit
drank my tea...4 of my 8 waters

Ran two miles.

Tomorrow is day 17! I am  not sure what I am gonna do on day 18...may take a break or go to phase 2.

Mentally I need a break. My heart is not in this right now...I still am way farther away from the healing I need from the loss of my baby Steven Thomas. I was hoping this would give me something to keep my mind off my sadness. I know that when I exercise and eat healthy it is good for me, but my heart craves for my pregnant belly and my baby moving around again! 

It is two months today since my water broke. My husband and I are having a tough time finding the words to express our loss. WE ARE TOTALLY grateful for our 12 amazing children and we are so blessed to have the miracle of our foster baby who keeps us all smiling...but, we still have a wound that needs to heal. We just got back from holy hour where we just kinda sat and held each other and cried asking God to help us. 

We know He is in control and we are so grateful for our faith...wow, what do people do during suffering without the consolation of Christ?

Off to bed dreaming of my wonderful family!!! 
This picture makes me laugh...I need a good laugh right now...gonna get our foster baby a Thing 13 for Christmas if we still have him! Please Lord, let us adopt him!

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

Saturday, September 15, 2012

My baby boy:

What a great day you had...If all little children could only be loved so much! All I heard all afternoon from your big brothers and sisters was we never had this many gifts...well, that's because they bought them for you! What an honor to have all 11 of your siblings, your foster baby, plus some friends, Geama, and Aunt Betsy here too!


Look at all my babies!!! What a smiling time!!!

Even though you had to go to one of the three soccer games today...you were great...this is a funny picture of us all cheering on my almost 9 year old daughter in her very first soccer game!!! Once again, I had to hear from the big kids about how we hardly ever went to "their" games...Guilt!!!  I said..."Well, we have lots of drivers now!"...even though I had my 15 passenger van...it took 6 cars to get all these people here from all their activities...but we made it and she played great..."Go Mary, Go Mary...the other team is hairy...they are really, really scary! Go Mary!

Your baptism with your God parents...and big sister and brother

We love you so much...you are such a blessing...stay close to Jesus all the days of your life!!!
Thy will be done!!! +JMJ+

17 DAY DIET: day 15-

Day 15: weigh in 149.0
Breakfast: 1 hard boiled egg and red grapes
Lunch: on the way to a soccer game, blueberry chobani
Dinner: (I was so hungry-after another soccer game)
            amazing grilled chicken, sauteed green beans, mushrooms
It is my baby's third birthday...my sweet boy had to share his day with lots of soccer games.

I have always been a big eater...hungry all the time...always eating the leftover kid food...but I am not hungry on this diet!

Took the day off from exercise! My legs needed a break and I wanted to sleep in...of course instead of waking up at 4:45am my body woke up about 5:30am...

Drinks: 
warm lemon water
4 of my 8 waters
3 of my 4 green teas

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

Friday, September 14, 2012

17 day diet: day 14

day 14: 
Weigh in: 149.4 lbs





Breakfast: 2 hard boiled eggs with old bay and red grapes
Lunch: greek yogurt with peaches
Dinner: salad with celery, carrots, mushrooms, chicken

Drinks: 
hot lemon water this morning
7 of my 8 waters
3 of my 4 green teas (my son spilled my cup!)

hard workout-can barely walk!


M/W/F:
Gym 5-5:50am
Do HIIT run-looks like this:
warm up on 4 for 2 min
go to 5.0 for one min
go to 5.5 for one min
go to 6. for one min
go to 6.5 for one min
go to 7.5 for one min
one minute break!
then back to 4 and do it again (3 times total)

Then I go to do weight training:
(do each 15 times for 3 rotations)
1. Chest Fly (on back with 15lb weight in each hand-bring up to each other)
2. Back Row (on each side with 15 lb weight, knuckle on bench, knee on bench, back straight, pull up weight like pulling a lawn mower cord up)
3. Shoulder Raise (10lb and then 5 lb weight in each hand, stand up strait, lift up arms at the same time
4. Bicep Curls (hold a 15 lb weight in each hand one at a time curl up arm-15 sets, so 30 times)


Thy will be done!!! +JMJ+