Thursday, September 3, 2009

Small Success Thursday...


OK so it is Thursday and it is when mom's around the world share their small successes as a mom.


1. I didn't hurt my 3 year old for scribbling on one of my favorite family pictures. See more here.


2. Did my 6Th grade son's school calender for 2months


3. Bought my supplies for my home birth...ready to go-come on baby!!!




THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

TO ENTERTAIN OR NOT ENTERTAIN...that is the question...

Many people don't like to have company over...some for a good reasons:

1. too much work
2. house is a mess
3. kids are too overwhelming
4. husband doesn't like company
5. they are too introverted or shy
6. don't have the money to really entertain
7. find people annoying
8. too busy

Well we have a little bit of all that in this house...I learned a great little word from the FLYLADY: C.H.A.O.S: which means Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome!!!

I am social by nature...ever since I was a kid. My husband is a quieter soul who would be happy with a good book and comfy couch...not sure why he loves having all these kids!!! We have a very busy household...people coming and going all the time, friends, neighbors, people from church, new friends (even though, my husband announces to me at each place we go---no new friends today!!! ) I just can't help it, I am a magnet to people...I just want to meet new people all the time. I even have made some really close friends from blogging...my teens laugh and say, "mom, what did we say about meeting people online?" Great ladies like Mary and Jo, as well as many others.

I think it is important to have people over, our generation has lost the fine art of hospitality. If you struggle with a messy house like me...than try to keep your front room or hall way clean, so when someone stops by I can welcome them in...offer them a ear to listen or just relax. I also find that having a party big or small...it gives me a good excuse to do some cleaning that I would normally not do...like windows. Isn't it amazing how much we can do for company that we don't do for our husbands...I really try to work on that!!!

So start small and see where the Holy Spirit leads you. Have fun and enjoy your company.

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY...


My oldest son Br. Joshua in the seminary...oh how I miss him. He is in charge of the pantry...soda anyone?

Thanks to Jo for taking this picture for me!!!

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

What every nine month pregnant momma wants to hear...

From today's first reading: 1 Thes 5:1-6, 9-11:
...like labor pains upon a pregnant woman, and they will not escape.
If you would like to read the entire thing go here.
Thanks St. Paul for the encouraging words!!!
THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

Imitation of Christ: meditation of the day...

The Fifty-Fourth Chapter
The Different Motions of Nature and Grace (part two)

The Voice of Christ


Nature has regard for temporal wealth and rejoices in earthly gains. It is sad over a loss and irritated by a slight, injurious word. But grace looks to eternal things and does not cling to those which are temporal, being neither disturbed at loss nor angered by hard words, because she has placed her treasure and joy in heaven where nothing is lost.

Nature is covetous, and receives more willingly than it gives. It loves to have its own private possessions. Grace, however, is kind and openhearted. Grace shuns private interest, is contented with little, and judges it more blessed to give than to receive.

Nature is inclined toward creatures, toward its own flesh, toward vanities, and toward running about. But grace draws near to God and to virtue, renounces creatures, hates the desires of the flesh, restrains her wanderings and blushes at being seen in public.

Nature likes to have some external comfort in which it can take sensual delight, but grace seeks consolation only in God, to find her delight in the highest Good, above all visible things.

Nature does everything for its own gain and interest. It can do nothing without pay and hopes for its good deeds to receive their equal or better, or else praise and favor. It is very desirous of having its deeds and gifts highly regarded. Grace, however, seeks nothing temporal, nor does she ask any recompense but God alone. Of temporal necessities she asks no more than will serve to obtain eternity.

Nature rejoices in many friends and kinsfolk, glories in noble position and birth, fawns on the powerful, flatters the rich, and applauds those who are like itself. But grace loves even her enemies and is not puffed up at having many friends. She does not think highly of either position or birth unless there is also virtue there. She favors the poor in preference to the rich. She sympathizes with the innocent rather than with the powerful. She rejoices with the true man rather than with the deceitful, and is always exhorting the good to strive for better gifts, to become like the Son of God by practicing the virtues.

Nature is quick to complain of need and trouble; grace is stanch in suffering want.

Nature turns all things back to self. It fights and argues for self. Grace brings all things back to God in Whom they have their source. To herself she ascribes no good, nor is she arrogant or presumptuous. She is not contentious. She does not prefer her own opinion to the opinion of others, but in every matter of sense and thought submits herself to eternal wisdom and the divine judgment.

Nature has a relish for knowing secrets and hearing news. It wishes to appear abroad and to have many sense experiences. It wishes to be known and to do things for which it will be praised and admired. But grace does not care to hear news or curious matters, because all this arises from the old corruption of man, since there is nothing new, nothing lasting on earth. Grace teaches, therefore, restraint of the senses, avoidance of vain self-satisfaction and show, the humble hiding of deeds worthy of praise and admiration, and the seeking in every thing and in every knowledge the fruit of usefulness, the praise and honor of God. She will not have herself or hers exalted, but desires that God Who bestows all simply out of love should be blessed in His gifts.

This grace is a supernatural light, a certain special gift of God, the proper mark of the elect and the pledge of everlasting salvation. It raises man up from earthly things to love the things of heaven. It makes a spiritual man of a carnal one.

The more, then, nature is held in check and conquered, the more grace is given. Every day the interior man is reformed by new visitations according to the image of God.

Lord, help me make many changes in my nature. Help me cling to Grace and grow closer to you.

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

PRAYERS FOR PREGNANT MOMMA'S...

PLEASE PRAY FOR THESE MOMMA'S!!!
THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+

TOY REVIEW TUESDAY: join in...


This week I am reviewing one of our favorite GAMES!!! Phase 10. It is one of our very favorites. It is very similar to Rummy. We have been playing it for over 6 years. I would say that it is good for ages five and over. You can pick up and play anywhere. It can take a long time or just play a couple of phases.
Remember, join in if you want...the more the merrier!!!

Enjoy!!!

THY WILL BE DONE!!! +JMJ+